Comparison

Like most Sundays I spent my time prepping for the week, hanging with my fam, partner and doggo and doing a little catch up with other people’s actions. Seems harmless right? 

Prior to our budgeting expedition, where I cracked it because of the unknown, I was strolling through my Instagram feed, as usual, and checking out everyone else’s weekends. I have this argument in my head most weekends/weeks wondering if my choices are the right ones. 

I like to save, a lot, I have huge plans on how I want my/our future to be and it has to be damn amazing. I struggle to weigh up my need to save vs wanting to enjoy my life. 

Bare that thought in mind when I explain the next part. While strolling through my Instagram I saw others adventures, from holidays to dinners out, drinking at beautiful places and going out parting.. obviously all the best bits for social media. 

My weekend consisted of exercise, volunteering, a small celebration, family hangs, house planning and dog beach with Zia. Most of which I briefly explained earlier,  and I think to myself ‘am I living my best life’ 

Then I realise of course I’m living my best life this is the life I lead with the people and things that I want life can’t get much betterThe choices I make are important to me I think I’m making the right decisions for where I am in my life right now. We need to be confident in ourselves and not use a comparison to others to measure our success, or failure for that matter! 🖤